The anticipation is a good portion of the enjoyment of a pleasant date. It’s true that we tend to think about our date on Friday night throughout the whole week. We think about what we will wear, where we’ll go, what we’ll eat, what we’ll say and do. What we plan on is how long it will take to get ready and whether we’ll need to leave work a few minutes early.
We stop dating when we enter a relationship. We see each other, of course, much more than we did in our dating days. We still have that sense of anticipation before seeing that beloved face at the onset of living together. Hurrying home to the most important person in our little world is what we tend to do.
Years of being together means that we become used to the routine. Also, it’s likely we enjoy seeing our significant other as much as ever but the exhilarating anticipation has become normalized. We have become habituated to the lives together we have created.
Dating again is what we need to start doing. How about if we try to create special events that we can look forward to with keen relish? Thinks about when you last took a vacation or a pleasure trip. The days and weeks leading up to it were times of mounting excitement and planning; we saw it in our mind’s eye long before it took place. We end up secretly smiling at the fun we’d had and the free feelings we had experienced and we also enjoyed remembering the things we had seen and done.
You can obtain the same spirit-boosting results to a lesser degree but with more frequency, in planning small events with our partner.
A lunch or dinner date at a special place can be something we look forward to for a long happy week. A date to go bowling, or dancing, or golfing, can be set up several days in advance. Or maybe plan on when you are going to see that special movie or attend a concert.
An event simply needs to be special, it doesn’t have to be expensive. Planning a visit to the fast food chain where you had your first date is even a good idea. Or you can take visits to local hotels to see which ones have the best free hors d’oevres at happy hour. You can even meet at a museum or an art gallery for a stroll together.
Try sending your honey a special invitation by card or email. Try advising that no regrets will be acceptable. Prepare for the date as carefully as if it was your first meeting and be on your best behavior as you were in that delicious dance of courtship.
When your friends question why you are in such a good mood lately, just smile and tell them that your life is so special that there’s no time left to be grumpy.
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